Tom doesn't mind a little shit on his cock as a side effect of anal, he's not into shit but it doesn't freak him out. I still go to great lengths to keep my ass as clean as possible for him. On a few occasions, he may have pulled his cock out of my ass a little less than clean. I'm self-conscious about it. He comforts me by saying things like, "Don't worry babe, I'm not afraid to play in the mud." or " I don't mind a little shit on my cock it reminds me of what hole I'm fucking and underlines our naughty ass fun."